I think, as compared to ladies in other Asian countries, Singaporean girls are the most demanding of the lot. 10 years ago, it was the 5Cs that mattered. Now, in addition to the 5Cs, guys are supposed to be manly, yet sensitive, caring, knowledgeable, well-read, well-travelled, well-groomed, the list goes on...
Previously, if a guy had a set of wheels, it was enough to impress the ladies. Not anymore. So what if you have a car? Nowadays, the brand and model of the car is more important. Good luck to you if you are driving a Toyota Vios or Hyundai Accent. You will be lucky to get a second look from them.
That said, I do not think that there is anything wrong in being demanding. It is good as it shows we are striving for continuous improvement. However, to some of these dear ladies, I wish to say ''Wake Up Your Idea Lah Dey!" Before you start making demands on your suitors or potential partners, take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask yourself : "what do I have to offer?" and "am I worth it?"
In my opinion, Singaporean girls should possess one or more of the qualities below before they start making demands on their partners:
1. Looks
Singaporean girls, by nature, do not have nice features or skin. The hot, humid Singapore climate creates large, enlarged pores in our skin and our Singaporean genes create normal, flat looking facial features. In contrast, just look at ladies from other Asian countries e.g. Japan, Korea, Thai, Vietnam, Philippines girls who already have nice eyes and facial features even before make up or plastic surgery. Singapore girls need tons of makeup to conceal their flaws and accentuate their features.
2. Figure
Singaporean girls generally have small boobs and flat butts. What's more, many have flabby arms and bulging tummies, thanks to our oily, unhealthy Singaporean diet.
3. Bedroom Skills
This is one of the qualities I think Singaporean girls have improved over the years. Exposing themselves at HDB staircase landings, having sex on hospital operating tables, taking naked self pics and then exposing them for the world to see, these contribute to an interesting sex life which can only be good spice for marriages and the Gahmen's call for increased procreation.
4. Personality
Singaporean girls want men who are well-travelled and knowledgeable. However, I believe that many of these girls look for guys like this just so that they can show off to their friends. Just look at the profiles of Singaporean girls at Friendster or do an informal poll among your circle of friends. Just see how many of them engage in more intellectual pursuits in their spare time. If you do not have an interesting personality or are generally spoilt and obnoxious, make an effort to change.
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I smell sour grapes.
And all the three points are on appearances. Is this how shallow you are? I bet you are an ugly asshole sitting behind the computer complaining. I bet you have no love life. After all, you are so shallow with high expectations.
I am from singapore and i agree with the blogger...singapore girls aren't that attractive...infact, most of the models here are foreign based or eurasians who only look good after having been photoshopped extensively...just look at sarah tan...what an ugly bitch!!!...You aren't singaporean just because u live here!!!
I think we need some Korean/Thai plastic surgeons, PRONTO! That's what we lack!
Eh, I have a suggestion for you, why don't you move out of Singapore to maybe, some fashion capital, ya, maybe you can find your future wife in the next Giselle Bundchen. You probably have "a lot to offer", instead of whining here.
My brain is shrivelling up just reading 1 post of yours.
The only word i can think of that can be use to describe you is superficial. Time to get a brain and grow up kid.
Hi.. I'm from Singapore. Honestly, I do agree with the points highlighted here by this blogger.
In terms of attitude, Not meant to offend but for some reasons, I find local Chinese ladies intimidating & very in your face type.
Their materialistic side is a well known fact too. I also notice that lots of them has a habit of ending relationships if a better "choice"(Rich or White)guy comes along.
There's a difference between the English & Chinese educated ones though. The Chinese educated ladies tend to be less judgmental & elitist.
Two years back, I met a nice & down to earth Vietnamese lady who came here to Singapore for studies. She doesn't ask me what's my highest qualifications, how much I earn, where I stay or if I own a car for eligibility. To her, it's more important that I have a job, willing to improve myself, love & treat her with respect.
After getting to know her, I realize that she's a great cook as well. Very sweet & loving to me & my family. Most importantly, She allows me to be the Man.
We are getting married soon this year. : )
Wow, so now you're talking about Demanding Singaporean Girls, yeah. I have only one thing to say: " GROW UP, loser." SINGAPOREAN WOMEN MAY NOT BE THAT PRETTY, (and i bet you're some lecher only looking for looks), but we have virtues. AT LEAST we're not like some weirdo sitting behind the computer screen all day searching for some stupid 1001 reasons why singapore sucks. SINGAPORE ROCKS I TELL YA.
Reality is cruel, my friends. Let just face it, this guy writing all fact on the blog. Singaporean girls are the most demanding b*tches in Asia. I'm pretty sure that he is looking for an average-looking girl, but most Singaporean girls don't have such, it's far lower in fact. Not to mention with their attitude, they are like a 24/7 PMS woman.
Seriously, never fail to be b*tches. I can tell u that u can find some in this blog. I lived in Singapore & I know how these people behave.
I am a singaporean girl. I own my apartment by 23. If you can't keep up with my pace, you can't call me a bitch for not wanting to date losers. Oh and white men - over rated - except if they are before 25. Their looks go downhill after 25. Go thank my dad for telling me not to date worthless boys. :) .
You own your apartment or did you prostitute yourself all the way up to buy the apartment? Or did daddy help u or some rich granpa white dude help you pay 95% of it? This is laughable seriously.
Its all right to have your own expectations but you dont need to put others down just because you cant accept or understand their own motivations in life.
I can't seem to see how's that comment with that attitude of yours does not make you a b*tch in Asia. Period.
Not all girls are like that... where did you get that opinion from? Did you model your 'Singaporean girl' on yourself?
Blogging is a good way to get rid of anger! KEEP IT UP!(I DONT AGREE WITH YOUR DUMB BLOGS THOUGH)
You are a disgusting human being. You have no idea how pretty and nice some of the girls here are. You are shallow and insulting and hateful. You will lead a miserable life if you continue this stinking attitude and have this shallow perspective.
koreans are not pretty....
I am from Singapore. And Singaporean girls r not that ugly!!! Korean girls all have fake plastic surgery faces. And our character isn't that bad. Stop criticizing our country!!! Every country has it's own good and bad points. I bet whatever country u are also have it's bad points!!!
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I and from Singapore. I'm just voicing my opinion here though. I honestly don't really agree with what you say. As a Singapore female myself, I do agree some dont look as nice. But honestly, it's a little to harsh by saying all of them are .. Below average. If you walk down the city now, you'll see pretty girl everywhere now. It even makes me lose my confident when I see those girls. But you're really pushing it when you created this blog just to criticise Singaporeans. No everyone single singaporean girl is like that. And no I'm not saying myself. I just hope you won't be so harsh and quick to judge. And I don't think it's just me. But you're making others pissed at your harsh comments.
I agree with you. I am sick of all of them. What is wrong with their attitude. I know some of them are not, like me, i'm not. But most of them, like 3/4 I know, has an attitude. Although I am a half singaporean girl,I totally agree with what you wrote.
Such a bigot! I was looking forward to a less shallow write up but it turns out full of bigness.
Yeah it's true. Most of Singaporean girl I ever met are demanding. I used to couple one Singaporean ladies. The fishy things about my ex-Singaporean GF is when she's asking me too much favor just to satisfied her. I know, it's our duty as a boyfriend to give a compromise which can satisfy our girlfriend but it doesn't mean that 'she' can put her demands which I consider sometimes that is ridiculous without looking the limits. I don't want to story or make a punchline about her as I still respect her as a human being but just so wanna share this as a lesson learn. Never pampered Singaporean girls too much, otherwise they will controlled you back.
Reference of my journey with her:
#I grab her hands #I bring her to my house #I undress her #I suck her tits #She sucks my dick #I screw here #A couple of months later #She gets pregnant #I dump her
Hehe... I am sucks right? To all Singaporean girls, I'm so sorry if my story makes you feel angry or disappointed. But this is real.
Some girls in singapore are really chio
agree with Ts...
Sg girls CMI, want rich dicks when themselves bo standard. OMG. BHB.. when i was poor doing a gov job. 3 of my gfs left due to quarrels, now that i work in sales industry and earning alot more, those ex came back, saw my FB new BMW car.
i have a few ex, they see me change my BM several time and come close to me, i date them for no reason to be honest. or maybe some extra benefits =p ladies expiry date around 30s. they still wana choose and think they are 'marketable' played for few months then ditch them! Bros i revenge for you poor dicks.
Sg girls are just shallow! fact!
am dating a foreigner, and im surprise how caring they are, i rather spent on lowly educated ladies but know how to be a understanding and loving partner.. and will be planning for marriage next year. F'yall sggirls. opps i did!
mine was demanding. comparing my salary with other men in her office WTF! we had a dispute for nothing! SOmetimes i just feel like ditching her. At least i get my little one inside her. If not i would rather be single
I read all articles in your blog and I have to say that, if you are Singaporean and you can see all those defects in the others Singaporeans, you must be a very different and intelligent person... don't bother about nasty comments from readers who feel offended by your opinion and keep sharing thoughts. Your awesome!
Singaporeans are ugly to look at but even uglier inside....
Hey Guys. Are you saying Singapore girls are ugly ????? Have you been there, sure ? They are wonderful, cute, ready and willing in bed.
But, alas, so people are right here, they have a way too high esteem of themselves and since most of the singaporian men are behaving like faggots, well, Singapore has become a "girls power" place.
But don't tell me they are not cute
I am singaporean and we have to be face up to the facts. This blogger is absolutely right.
Most, if not all, Singaporean MEN and WOMEN are ugly, both inside and out. Obesity is on the rise and virtues are more difficult to find today compared to our parents' generation. So we are dumbing down as a nation over time and reproducing a species that have the worst of both worlds.
Not to mention myopic, with most locals thinking that singapore is the center of the world, with Singlish being "Uber attractive"... not! I think this comes with the territory of many choosing not to be exposed to other cultures (apart from China) to see how unattractive some of us can really be with our SingLand mannerisms...
I'm absolutely certain there are singaporeans with fine virtues, but they are few and harder to find. What more those Singapore men and women who have a good balance of physical attractiveness and character?
I forgot to also say that i have followed these 2 groups of Singaporeans with great interest :
1) How Singapore Men (the obese ones especially who think money alone can buy attractiveness) can think they are so attractive to the third world ladies when we all know they look kinda ... Ah hem... ugly ... compared to their athletic and fit Japanese or Korean or even Caucasian counterparts, many of whom are not just physically fit but also equally if not more wealthy. The Money buys all mentality... mostly for the Chinese educated Singaporean types.
2) How some Singapore women (especially a handful - not all - who are married to Caucasians) can think they are as beautiful as their caucasian spouses, when we all know that there are many caucasian females or Japanese / Koreans for that matter who look so much better than them. In my opinion, in such cases. either the caucasian guy was just settling for average or mediocre... or it was simply true love where opposites attract. But in no way are most of these SG women / Caucasian Man couples I've seen on the streets equals (physically speaking)
These groups have sparked my curiosity for quite some time now.
I have no words for this extremely shallow thinking... This blog is essentially just a bunch of sweeping statements.
I'm a Singaporean girl, trying her best to speak from an unbiased perspective.
But even the way you number your pointers says it all. The first three pointers of yours are extremely superficial. Looks, really? Bedroom skills? If you think that way, you're probably a lot more materialistic than people make us out to be. Granted, we're not as attractive as Asians from other counties, but is that all that really matters? Some of us tend to favour 'natural beauty' over 'superficial beauty', which means we don't put on heaps of makeup before going out. We're just simple that way. Maybe we look uglier in your opinion, but that's just yours, isn't it? No girl is perfect. If you want a perfect girl, get a Barbie.
Personality-wise (which I must note is ranked last in your glorious list of expectations...), we can be materialistic, I won't deny it, but I don't believe all of us just want rich boyfriends just so we can flaunt them. Maybe some of us are like that, but don't ever use a few mere examples to justify that of an entire nation of girls. Singapore is a very diverse country with many different kinds of people, both in appearance and personality. Not all of us act this way.
Maybe you've had some bad experiences with some of us before? If so, I sincerely apologise on their behalf.
-Just a random girl's fleeting thoughts on the subject.
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Singaporean girls look better than Japanese girls in average But many singaporean guys looks ugly compared to Japanese guys.
Japanese guys have protruding teeth but they looks better than sporean guys. And many Japanese women who are pretty are Hapas or done plastic surgery. Comparing Sporean with other Asian women is unneeded.
And reading your blog it Seems singaporean guys more desperate in dating and marriage ....
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